One of the most eye opening moments of my life was the instant I realized that nobody can make you do anything you don’t want to do, nobody can make you be someone you don’t want to be. Your life lies completely in your own hands, you have absolute control to do with it what you wish. And I think that is both terrifying… and freeing.
we are the shapers of our own destinies // McKenna Kaelin
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I’m extremely lucky to have the choice.
If you’re feeling depressed, this might a blog that understands you: @depression-hope.
Honestly the best piece of advice I can give to younger girls trying to figure life out is to completely ignore men. I’m not being quirky or cute when I say that, I mean it seriously. Ignore men’s judgments of you, ignore their insincere compliments, ignore their half-assed romance. Focus on developing yourself. Practice your art, play sports, do theater, volunteer, spend time with your friends, but do not put substantial effort into pleasing men. They’ll be there for you to pursue when the time comes and if you want to. But nothing will waste your youth more than fighting for male acceptance.
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I can’t tell you how to not be a corny nigga, my nigga. This is your assigned role in life and if every corny nigga learned how to not be corny niggas the world ecosystem would be fucked up. I can tell you somethings to make you accept it easier and love yourself more.
So, just be yourself my nigga. You can’t be a corny if you’re being yourself and if you end up being corny from being yourself because you’re naturally a corny motherfucker, thats cool because you’re being you which is being REAL, and being real outweighs being corny any day. Basic mathematics. I rather be cool with a corny nigga who’s real than a fake nigga who’s the coolest person in the room.
